Monthly Archives: September 2017
While some of you may recall and others may not, “Inspire some Intimidate the Rest” use to be our slogan for NBS Fitness. Now, I could see how having this as your business slogan could lead one to believe that we are in fact an intimidating gym full of intimidating meat heads. However, that being our gym slogan or not, I can guarantee you that we are not an intimidating place. I can still recall the very first time I came to NBS 3 years ago as an intern.
I remember walking into our old building that we were in before our current one and thinking to myself that I had never seen anything like it before. Of course, at that moment I did feel a bit intimidated. I looked around the place and noticed all of the bars on the wall and didn’t have a single clue what any of them were for. That was exactly my problem at the time. I didn’t know anything, and I didn’t know anybody. I stood there with my backpack in my hand looking around with my mouth hanging wide open. It was at that point that our owner, David Allen, looked over at me and said, “Well, are you just gonna stand their like an idiot, or are you gonna put your stuff down and come on!!?” In a bustle, I looked for somewhere to put my stuff, and ran into his office. That was my first day at NBS.
Again, I was experiencing a bit of intimidation that day, only because at that time I really didn’t know David, or this other guy with a mowhawk, or anybody else at the moment. What I’m trying to get at is, if you think that we are an intimidating gym, full of intimidating people, then you really don’t know us yet. These people who when I first met them, and was unsure and perhaps a little intimidated by, would soon become some of the most important and influential people in my life. Fast forward 3 years and most of these people are now really great friends of mine that I see almost every day of the week!
What i’m really trying to say is that if you find yourself coming to NBS for the first time and you feel intimidated, then you should really just take a little time to introduce yourself to anyone you see. Get to know us, and ask questions about things that you don’t know about. I promise in roughly a week or two you will start to sense the community that we try to create for everyone here at NBS. When I was interning, I had another job at a commercial gym here in the city. I could have chosen to leave NBS as soon as I had gotten my hours for the day, and gone to my other gym that I worked at, where I was comfortable and where I knew everyone, where I wasn’t an outsider. Despite all of that, I chose to stick around NBS a little longer to get my training session in. I wanted to get to know all of these like-minded, driven people that were a part of NBS. I wanted to soak up and learn as much as I could from them. I wanted to better myself, and I wanted to help others in the process.
Before I knew it, without even noticing or thinking about it, I wasn’t intimidated anymore. In fact, I thought to myself, “Why was I thinking that in the first place? Everyone here is incredibly nice and only want to see others around them succeed.” I’ve come to learn that the best thing I can do as a coach, is to make a person better than me. Then, and only then, you have truly become a great coach.
I’ll say this. If you do happen to cross paths with someone at our gym that comes across as intimidating, chances are they don’t even belong there. In fact, most of the time these people have a way of weeding themselves out of our gym. There is no place for anyone like that at NBS. Our goal is to watch you grow and develop not only as a lifer, or whatever your training interests may be in, but also as a person.
I urge you, if you’re new to NBS and you feel a little intimidated, it’s only because you haven’t had the opportunity to get to know the great people that are a part of our community. Take the time to shake some hands and tell us about yourself and what has brought you to our gym. We are not intimidating, and we are glad to have you.
Last week, we wrapped up our contest schedule with a sold-out RPS Powerlifting meet, The Memphis Classic. This marks the seventh meet I have been able to help host at NBS and about the 15th I have helped promote and host over the years. If you add in the strongman meets and push pulls, I couldn’t tell you how many contests I have been fortunate enough to experience on the administrative end. Somewhere in the mid-20s, safely.
If I am being honest, every event I have ever been involved with felt decently smooth at the end of the day. As you can see, at no point have I thought to myself, “Self, this isn’t your forte…hang it up.” I will say that if I had known then what I know now, I would have absolutely stream lined a few things. But hey, that’s life. If you aren’t embarrassed by your first product, you launched too late (Steve Jobs quote, fyi).
This meet was maybe one of the most smooth we have hosted, and I figured I would put together the time line for what has helped us streamline our contest schedule.
End of 2016: David and I meet at the end of every year and sketch out our contest schedule. Each year, we aim for 2 powerlifting meets ( a spring and a fall), 1 strongman (during Memphis in May festival), 4 squat-bench-deadlift clinics, and a handful of customer appreciation/ open houses/clinics. This is actually a very delicate process because we try to account for interferences a year out. We don’t want to host meets close to other area meets, and we want enough time to adequately promote each event without clustering the events together. We also have to keep our local calendar in mind: Memphis is the home of MANY festivals. While some play in our favor, I can tell you that no one wants to compete with BBQ fest in terms of attendance.
During this time, we also schedule a bit of promotion as to when we will start pushing awareness of each event.
Early 2017: We try to post the entries for each meet on their respective federation websites. For powerlifting, this is simple. For strongman, we finalize events/weights and decide what equipment we need to buy to host the show.
About three months out, we start strategizing our promotion of the meets. We also start reaching out to our most reliable judges/spotters/loaders
Around 1 month out, we line up prizes and make sure we have hands on all equipment needed. This means weights/clamps/bars/ monos/strongman equipment/distance markers/etc.
2 weeks out: we finalize staffing for the day. This includes judges/spotters/loaders/front desk/food vendors/table works/etc.
1 week out: We make sure our venue is clean and we are ready for weigh ins. At this time, we start to organize entries and plug their info into all our scoring sheets/check in sheets,
1 day out: weigh ins and set up. These are the longest days I face in a year, but they are really enjoyable. Typically, both David and I arrive to weigh ins 0-15 minutes early and stay until the final weigh in. Typically this is 8am-7pm. At 7pm, we start our set up. Powerlifting is currently hosted inside NBS fitness, so we spend about an hour moving equipment around and setting up the warm up and main staging areas. We also make sure our projector/computers/barloading/sound equipment is ready to rock.
By the time we leave that evening, the scene is set. The day of the meet: we party. Once the meet is over, we spend about an hour putting the gym back together and spot cleaning evidence of the meet. The next day, our staff spends a little time giving the gym extra TLC to wipe away any trace of the previous days events.
As I mentioned earlier, this is surely something that has evolved since my very first time working a table or MCing a meet. I’m sure it will evolve further. I appreciate everyone who comes out and competes to even allow such a learning experience, and David for trusting me on the mic.
I competed this past weekend in my 6th powerlifting competition. I’ve been training for powerlifting for about 2 years and 8 months now, and I was just able to reach elite status for the 198lb weight class in the Revolution Powerlifting Syndicate (RPS) federation (raw modern). It felt really great to finally hit a goal that I’ve been chasing for a while now. I ended the day with a 1494 total, and went 8/9 on all 9 of my lifts. My best lifts were a 585 squat, a 320 bench, and a 590 deadlift. The original plan leading up to the meet was to hit a 600lb squat. My second attempt was fairly easy, and that was my 3rd attempt from my last meet. We were dealing with kilo plates at this particular meet, and for myself it was the first time I’d ever used them. When I went to tell the judges table my 3rd attempt, I had a couple of people in my ear telling me how easy my last looked, and that I should go more then 6, well I listened and that was probably a mistake. The time came for my 3rd and I got set under the bar and went for it, as soon as I hit the hole and started to come up I lost my brace and started to drift forward, which is exactly what happens every time I miss a squat. Anyways, I was really bummed that I missed it because I had been wanting that number for quite some time. I knew I had to forget about it and keep my head in the game, I still had 6 more lifts to go. Moving onto bench things were feeling good warming up. It’s always slightly ackward warming up in the power racks because I always bench on our competition bench, but I know by now that is just one of the many different things you deal with on meet day. Again, the kilos were weird, so I took my opener at 297, easy like it should be. I went 314 for my second, which was what I was hoping for leading into the meet. Anything over that would’ve been a pr so I kept it conservative, instead of being greedy like I was on squats and went the next weight up which was 320, (or 319. something to be exact.) I had done about a 12lb water cut the day prior to the meet,so I was starting to deal with some cramps, especially in my back while benching. I hit my 3rd attempt with maybe a tiny bit left in the tank, but when I racked it my back cramped up probably worse then it ever has before. All I could do was lay there for a couple of seconds before finally getting up and going over to the chairs by the platform to lay on the ground for a moment…lol. Bench was done and I’d hit a small pr, now it was time for deadlifts. At my last meet I felt like I was running out of gas by the time they had gotten around, so I made sure to have just a little bit of caffeine and a bagel to keep fueled. Trying to warm up for the 3rd flight of deadlifts was an absolute disaster! At first there was only one bar to warm up on, so a couple of us figured it would be better to get another one to make things run a little faster. Once we had the two bars rolling, things were going a little faster, then it was time. I took my opener at 540. It was easy like an opener is supposed to be. I believe I needed at least 570 to hit my elite total, and that was what I had planned to take as my 2nd attempt. After all, I had hit in in training more than once with more left in the tank. I know that you won’t always hit on the platform what you hit in training, but I knew it was there. My name was called and I had everyone in the room screaming at me. Right when I approached the bar the music stopped, but it didn’t matter to me. I was zoned in, I knew that I had to hit this, there was no reason not to, and I wasn’t going to have a repeat of my last meet on deadlifts. It came up like butter, I had finally gotten my Total. At that point it almost didn’t even seem real. I had one more deadlift to go, anything after that would’ve just been “icing on the cake” as they say. I tried to make a jump that wasn’t too big, but not too small either. I really felt like I had nothing to lose at that point. Some people might say I should’ve just gone 600, but would that have been me trying to be greedy again? I kept it somewhat conservative and went for 590. My name was called and I approached the bar, this time the music actually kept playing, still surrounded by everyone yelling at me with support. I went for it, as I was pulling it up I could start to feel a bad cramp starting in my glute/hamstring area, but I wasn’t going to let off. 3 white lights! I hit it! It was a damn good way to end that meet, especially when you compare it to how my last meet went at the end and I screwed myself from getting the total I wanted. Even though I would consider this a successful meet, there were still many lessons learned, one of them being one that I learned all the way back in elementary school, which was don’t give into peer pressure…lol! Thank you to everyone that came out that day to help with the meet and show your support for all of the lifters.
1st attempt squat
On The Road Again
It’ been a busy month for Steve and I. Since we are empty nesters it’s a bit easier to get away, however we have jobs and fur babies so we greatly appreciate the help we had so our getaways were successful and joyful!
Up Up and Away
At 70 years old, Steve’s boss George is one sharp tack. I hope to have just a small piece of what he has when I am that age. George was a pilot in the Vietnam war. Since shortly after Vietnam, however, George stopped flying for reasons I am unaware. A few years ago he decided to get back in the pilots seat and has found a new love for flying. He and his wife, Glenda, had been wanting to take Steve and I on a trip for some time and it finally worked out for all of us to take off for a 3-day weekend. George currently flies a twin engine Baron. I have never been in a plane this small, so this was a first time for me and I’d be telling a tale if I said I wasn’t a bit nervous upon take off….mid flight (to Lynchburg)….and then back on the ground. By the time we took off for Asheville, however, I had settled in and got a little more comfortable with the situation. With the hum of the engine, the sun pouring in through the windows, and the distant chatter of air traffic in my headphones, the stage was set for a perfect nap….or it could have just been that huge lunch we had at Ms. Mary Bobo’s that put me to sleep. At any rate, I very much enjoyed the remaining time in the air.
That weekend was pretty awesome, from beginning to end. Steve and I savored our time with George and Glenda, shared in a lot of laughs, and learned more about each other. The tour of the Biltmore hotel was incredible (put that on your list) and we enjoyed each new experience…and wine, there was a lot of that!
Tough Mudder Team Work
The following weekend was a bit different. Thirteen of us have been preparing to take on the 10 mile, 20 obstacle Tough Mudder challenge, and the time had finally arrived to put our training to the test. The morning of the event, brought clear skies, a beautiful sunrise with a hit of nervousness. Most of all, the morning brought joy! For many of us, this was our first Tough Mudder. As with most new experiences,, apprehension often rides its coattail. However, any apprehensions we had were quickly erased with a rally by our awesome MC, along with the National Anthem…then we were off!
The group eventually had a natural divide to it as everyone hit their running stride. We never saw Greg Freeman after the first 100 meters, David and Jenn broke out next. Steve, me, Brett and Garrett stayed together, and behind us were Nicole, Meghan, Sharon, Anna, Tina, and Kendra. Each of us faced off with the TM in our own way, running our own race.
With a Little Help From My Friends
The TM is designed to be completed as a team. That team may not be who you came with, it may be a complete stranger who ends up running alongside you. There were obstacles to overcome one could not reasonably achieve on their own. We depended on complete strangers for help and in return, we helped those complete strangers. Having help did not mean you weren’t strong or capable, it meant you were a teamplayer and we each played a role in creating an enjoyable experience for those around us. I am reminded of the song, With a Little Help From My Friends . My favorite version of this is from Joe Cocker, such an amazing artist.
My biggest fear of all the obstacles was the one called Electroshock Therapy. There are 10,000 volts of electricity running through the 1000 wires dangling over mud, water and hay bales. This was absolutely terrifying to me and I had zero interest in running through it. It was the last obstacle on the course and when I saw it, I knew I couldn’t do it. I went around it and I have zero regrets. Maybe its just psychological and I can’t get past it. Maybe I have a deep fear of it because I ran through barbed electric wire as a child and tore my mouth up, or maybe it’s because my great uncle (Big Ben) died of electrocution while checking his well out on the farm. Whatever it is, running through live wires is just not something I can do and I’m ok with that.
I tested my physical fitness that day and each of us did something that we had never done before and we did it with a pretty awesome group, all from right here from NBS. We’ll forever be connected by that weekend with the memories we created together. To me, that is what life is about…sharing experiences with one another.
Lean on Each Other
Last weekend we were a bit closer to home as I attended my 30th year class reunion. Our Senior song was Lean on Me. Who knew at that time how much those lyrics would eventually bring to our lives.
Growing up in Brinkley, Arkansas, (current population, appx, 2,798. Population in 1987, appx., 4,232.) gave us all the small town experience each of us have grown to love. Eighty seven students, class of ‘87. Most of us entered school together in Kindergarten or 1st grade, and we received our diploma together some 12 years later. The majority of our class left Brinkley upon graduation, went on to attend nearby universities, and returned to Brinkley only for visits with family. I too left the day I graduated, as I knew it was not a place I wanted to stay and raise my children. At one time, it could have been. We were a typical rural town with shops downtown, that included clothing boutiques, Western Auto, antique stores, Sears & Robuck and every little specialty store you could think of. Drive through the town now and it’s hardly recognizable. The stores have closed, the buildings abandoned, and all but the memory of Saturday morning shopping trips, rots on the foundation in which they were built. I found myself reminiscing unrecognizable areas. They were familiar, but not. Much has changed and much has not.
Friday Night Lights
Friday night I met my classmates at the football game. As Steve and I approached the school, the lights from the field illuminated a vast array of cars parked in the lots, along the streets, and in every grassy section nearby. I think the entire town must have been at the game Friday night. I was amazed as it was only one short month ago that the news was reporting that Brinkley High did not have enough interest in the football program (or enough kids) to even have a team. Apparently, the town, the school and the kids all rallied together to continue the Brinkley tradition. It was an awesome site to see! There has always been a lot of Brinkley Pride, 30 years later, it is no different.
My time with my classmates was wonderful. We had real conversations with each other. Conversations about how many of us overcame multiple challenges as kids to go on to become very successful adults. Rural towns are very different, at least Brinkley is anyway. One did not discuss their family’s problems. It was important for the family to hide their issues because ‘saving face’ in the community was much more important. Knowing now what many of my classmates endured creates an even more profound respect for them and their current successes in life.
Eventhough we don’t see each other regularly, we all are bonded together forever. We are bonded through our love for Brinkley, our pride for a town that is doing its very best, and pride for our alma mater, Brinkley High.
We Are Not an Island
Looking back over the last few weeks brings me such a sense of joy and fondness for the friends that I have made over my 48 years. We cannot walk through this life alone, and why would we want to? We need experiences in our life to draw from and we need people to depend on. Our challenges make us stronger and we need people willing to lend their knee when we need a lift. Facing challenges, embarking on new experiences and asking for help can be very difficult, but think of the strength and the blessings that are waiting for you on the other side. I am reminded of a song by Darius Rucker (I love him) For The First Time. Our MC at the Tough Mudder brought this back to my attention. Listen to the song, ask yourself the question, and then answer it.
Be blessed. Be awesome.
A little insight into the barriers I worked on during this meet, you may be surprised what they were, it was not the weight.
Last Saturday, September 16th, myself and a group of NBSers went up to Lebanon, TN to take on a Tough Mudder. For those not familiar with the Tough Mudder event series it is a 10 mile obstacle course with 20 obstacles spread throughout the course. Obstacles including crawling through mud under barbed wire, sliding down a tube into frigid ice water, a climbing obstacle straight out of American Ninja Warrior, and running through a forest of electric shock cables while standing in water. Yeah, it sounds a little crazy.
The start of the race begins with gathering into a coral and getting a motivational speech and then a count down before you get to charge into the course. The way they have this setup is really cool and makes you feel like you’re in a movie getting a pre battle pep talk. From there, we took off through the hills of Nashville in a group of about 200 racers. This group began to spread out a bit throughout the course as did our team. After about 3 or 4 obstacles, Jennifer and I were split off from everyone with a goal to keep moving.
Another cool part of the Tough Mudder is that the majority of the obstacles require help to complete. They are setup so that you have to work with the other racers on the course to get through it. This may include letting someone step on your shoulder to make a human ladder or grabbing someones arm to help them climb up a mud hill. The camaraderie that results from this practice is just one more thing that adds to enjoyment of the event.
About half way through I bruised my rib climbing over a log which kept getting irritated through out the rest of the course but the worst thing that happened to me was I started cramping pretty bad the last 3 miles of the course. Another runner gave me a salt tablet which helped alleviate the cramps for about 15 minutes but they came back worse the last two miles. Those last two miles were brutal. Trying to keep running and get through the obstacles with my calves and hamstrings locking up every couple seconds made for a tough, but fun, mental challenge. I remember saying earlier in the course that I didn’t come here to walk so that was what I kept repeating to myself as I trudged ahead.
The final obstacle was the electroshock therapy where you run through a forrest of electric tentacles. A lot of people went through unscathed or with minor shocks but for some reason when I went through the shocks shut my body down and blacked me out for a brief second. The funny thing is, I don’t remember feeling any of the shocks. I was just moving forward and then the next thing I knew, I was in the mud. Get back up, BZZZZZ, right back into the mud. In my head I figured the reason I kept ending up in the mud was because I was tripping on the hay bales when in fact I was getting shocked. I didn’t really “experience” it because each time it happened I blacked out. It wasn’t till I got through and saw the video that I knew what was really the cause.
Overall it was a great experience and I’m looking forward to doing another one or two next year. Hopefully a few of you will join me and experience your first Tough Mudder as well.
Despite what you may have heard, callouses on our hands are actually a good thing. Large callouses however, are not. Let’s start by defining what a callous actually is.
Callous –showing or having an insensitive and cruel disregard for others. Oh, ok, not that kind. Callouses are quite simply just a hardened or thick part of the skin. With repetitive use, areas of the skin begin to harden. I see this most often in pull ups. Anyone new to CrossFit,has issues with their hands hurting more than anything , due to the continuous (new) demand on their grip. There’s no way to really ease into this or get around “toughening up” the skin. Doing more work will allow the skin to toughen over time. You need this to happen.
Immerse yourself into training for a few months, and you’ll notice baby callouses. When this happens, my newbie CrossFitters are often filled with excitement as they have a sense of feeling as though they have finally ‘arrived’! It’s so cute. The hands have become tougher and with that the grip typically becomes stronger and one is able to put in a bit more work.
Tearing is Not for Cool Kids
I know you’ve seen the images of bloody hands on social media, (a few of my own) after a voluminous toes to bar or pull up workout. Some may feel as those are badges of honor. However, this should not be the case. We have to care for the callouses as we would for any other body part we train. If we don’t, we are sure to rip and that is extremely unpleasant and can ruin your week of training.
How to Care for Your Hands
There are several ways of caring for your callouses and several items on the market to help you. Here are a few:
- WOD Welder Hand Cream (WODWelder)
- Pumice Stone (Pumice Stone)
- Callous Scraper (Callous Scraper) (my personal choice)
- Pedi Egg (Pedi Egg)
- Fine grip sandpaper
- Ripfix cuticle trimmer and cream (https://www.ripfix.com/)
Ripfix actually has a kit that runs about $16 and includes a pumice stone, cuticle trimmer as well as the cream. I have one and although I prefer other methods, it is useful.
Shredded My Hands, What Now?
So most of us have been there once or twice, didn’t use preventive measures and now we have kids. Oh wait, not the topic today….
So you’ve shredded our hands during one of those awful workouts our awesome coach programmed. What now?
- First, as painful as it is, and yes, it is very painful, you must wash right away with soap and water. I’ll wait outside the bathroom and listen for your screams.
- Next, cut away any remaining skin around the affected area.
- Break oven a Vitamin E Capsule and apply generously to the affected area
- Cover with a Bandaid Brand Advanced Healing Blister Cushion (I like these)
Double Check Your Grip
If you’re taking care of your hands but seem to have continuous issues with ripping, check how you’re gripping the bar, especially during pull ups. You should never reach your hand completely over the bar (palm), instead, use the same grip you would if you were deadlifting. It will take some time to create a stronger grip, but it will certainly be worth saving the hands.
Here’s a video I made a couple of years ago on what works for me.
Callous maintenance that works for me, hope it will work for you too! It's best if you do this after your shower so your skin is nice and soft! #callouses #pullups #handcare
Posted by CrossFit NBS on Friday, November 6, 2015
Pull out your boots, metal studded leather jacket, and tame your mange. It’s time for another riff of the week. This weeks riff is actually something that I’ve learned just recently. It’s from another one of my top 5 favorite bands and although this song was one of their hits, I tend to be more fond of their more obscure tracks. This one is a classic and I hope you enjoy it as much as I have. This weeks featured riff is from the song titled Them Bones by Alice in Chains. This song comes from their second album called Dirt, which was released in 1992. Sorry about my thick thighs.
I blame Kevin Costner. He made it seem cool to steal from people when he played Robin Hood in the Prince of Thieves movie. In that time period, if you were wealthy it was because you were born into wealth. Unfortunately that same mindset has made it’s way into modern times. While financial success does hinge on opportunity and some people are afforded more opportunities than others, the beautiful thing about this country is that everyone has the ability to raise their current status. Despite this fact, some people believe that everyone who is more successful than them only got there through the oppression of others. Rich people are assholes and taking their money is a good thing (thanks Kevin!). The method of theft has gotten a little more complex over the years and now instead of using bows, arrows, and swords people can just use their votes. While I understand the need for taxes, it’s gotten a little crazy since I opened my own business. Here are the taxes I currently pay:
- City Property Tax
- County Property Tax
- City Personal Property Tax
- County Personal Property Tax
- Payroll Tax
- Sales Tax (when purchasing)
- Sales and Use Tax (when selling)
- Self Employment Tax
- Income Tax
- Capital Gains Tax
If just my property taxes were cut in half, I could give my entire front desk staff a 35% increase in their hourly pay. But oh well, such is the cost of doing business. However, that is not what this blog is about. This is about the ways in which you can steal from me and other small businesses like me right now! You don’t even have to wait till election season.
Everything Below Has Actually Happened….This Week
Let Your Friends In For Free
While I’m sure you understand that businesses have expenses, businesses also need to understand that you have expenses too. Businesses can’t really expect you to pay for their product and services can they? Of course not. So when a business has some stupid policy like a guest fee, you should just ignore it. I mean, I know they said it was on the honor system and all and they seem pretty good about letting you bring in friends to check out the gym, but none the less, $10 can buy you a tall boy and a bag of chips so why waste it on something else. This guy below has the right idea.
Undercut Their Prices
The next time you go to a steak house, take your grill, set it up in the lobby and offer to cook steak for half the price the restaurant is charging to the people who are walking in. Think about it, you’ll still make a profit and you won’t be burdened with all the other expenses or hassles of running your own business. In fact, take cash or paypal payments from your “family and friends” and you won’t even have to worry about paying taxes like those suckers who own the business. If that seems like too much of a hassle, just come to NBS and start offering your services to people at a cheaper rate. You’ve got a target market at your finger tips. Money in the bank!
Steal Their Intellectual Property
The only potential road block to cooking your own steaks or doing training, nutrition, or programming for someone on the side at NBS is that people may or may not think you’re good at what you do. So, take the time, spend the money and work with one or more of their trainers. Get a few of their workout routines or nutrition templates and then just sell that to people! It would be foolish to go through all the work they did to create it when you can just steal it and sell it yourself. And again…no taxes!
Don’t Pay Your Invoices
Look if a business is stupid enough to sell you their services without running a credit report on you, then they don’t deserve to be paid in full. So, if you actually go into that steak house, be sure to enjoy a nice steak and some wine but not the whole thing. Then bounce before the waiter or waitress has time to give you the bill. If they catch you in the parking lot, just tell them that you didn’t even finish the steak or wine and that being asked to still have to pay for it is bullshit. Another good way is to go to NBS and sign up for a membership but then just stop paying. Your keyfob will get shut off but if you signed up for the year contract and only paid your bill for 4 months who cares? You saved $60! Granted they’re going to spend a lot of time and energy trying to contact you about your failure to pay (which you should definitely ignore) and eventually they’ll send you to collections (when they do this, just call and cuss them out) but let’s be honest, your credit sucks already so what’s a little more bad credit gonna do. The best part? The owner gets an email for every failed credit card payment each morning. That rich asshole and his staff have to sift through every one of them to contact you and try to get you to pay, hahahaha suckers!
Remember, from a moral standpoint, stealing is very circumstantial. And who hasn’t pretended to be the Kevin Costner version of Robin Hood? I know I have
Labor Day was my one year anniversary with NBS Fitness. I knew coming into this hard driving powerlifting/strongman community there would be a few high brows. I recall one of the very first questions I posed to David during our first discussion of combining the communities. “Let’s be serious, David, powerlifters hate CrossFitters, and CrossFitters hate powerlifters. How do you propose these communities come together?” He smiled and said, “They have a tendency to follow where I lead them.” I could appreciate that comment, because my members do too….and many of them did just that. There has been a lot that has transpired over that year.
Although Wolf River CrossFit was approaching the end of its 4th year, I knew the merger would mean basically starting over as a new business. Unlike most new businesses however, we had a good foundation to start with, including my coaching experience, David’s successful business experience and a pretty good handful of CrossFitters who were willing to follow me and trust my decision, as well as David’s direction.
I wasn’t sure what the vibe would be once we got planted at NBS. As the new kid at school, you never how well-received you will be. My biggest hope and prayer was that even if one did not prefer CrossFit as their method of training, they would at least respect it. A mutual respect is all any of us could ever really want, in my opinion. When one can put aside their own opinions and open their mind about something new, growth happens. It’s been awesome to see that most have done that! Our community as a whole has strengthened and expanded. Eventhough us CrossFitters spread out our equipment everywhere and take up all of the space around us, we’ve still somehow managed to make a few friends. And while my personal aspirations reach beyond perfecting my squat, bench and deadlift, or keg carrying (although that could come in handy) I highly respect those who work so hard on theirs.
If I had my way, I’d keep nearly everyone who comes into our fold, that’s not quite reality however. Over the last year, we have added many new faces and we have lost several along the way as well. I hate it when we lose a member, no matter the reason. I try to put all of myself into coaching and helping everyone have a good experience, so when someone drops off, it definitely makes an impact on me. It’s not necessarily about liking me, because not everyone will, and that’s ok, as liking me is not mandatory…..appreciated but not mandatory. Making sure everyone walks out a little bit better (no matter how long they stay) is mandatory, however. I can only hope that I’ve done that.
As a new business we are doing pretty well for one year in. We’ve recently expanded our staff by adding another coach. Rylan Burns is super excited about helping out and bringing new experiences to the table. Additionally, we are not far away from having a new building built to move our entire CrossFit operation in to. While I will miss working out alongside our powerlifting friends, I am pretty excited about getting in that building aannnddd changing the music!! Er, I mean changing more lives! 😉
Let’s keep rockin and rollin and make year two an ultimate success!!
We discussed rucking on episode 3 of the Iron and Lead Podcast very briefly, and since then I have had quite a few questions on rucking. While I have had the benefit of working with hundreds of military/LEO/big dudes for the last few years, I do think rucking can be an enjoyable (*gasp*) activity for nearly anyone who likes to get outside and get moving. Today, I aim to address a few common questions I get for people that are relatively new to rucking or just need a brush up on what to know.
Which rucksack is best for me?
As with everything, “it depends.” A few common packs and their benefits:
1.) Lightweight Daypacks: these are exactly what they sound like. Often made of nylon , these are packs that are very simple in layout and have a lightweight design with padded straps. They don’t commonly have a TON of padding and aren’t made for absolutely brutal conditions. They are great packs if you are headed out for a short duration ruck (less than 4 hours or so) and your packaway needs are simple things such as hydration, snacks, weather precautionaries (rain coat/extra socks/etc) and emergency kits. These also typically have a small compartment for things you may need quickly, such as car keys, a knife, or batteries. Keep in mind: if you overload these rucksacks and head out for a longer ruck than the bag is designed for, you run the risk of being hours from home with a broken ruck. This is true for all rucksacks, but especially true in nylon ruck sucks.
2.) Rucksacks: this is a common term for rucksacks that are made for longer or even multiday rucks. They are quite a bit ore sturdy than the daypack and can be loaded heavier, with a recommended maximum up to 120lbs. The straps are heavily padded as are the hip straps, which becomes increasingly important as the day wears on. These are typically adjustable to accommodate different torsos.
3.) Climbing Packs: I didn’t even think of these initially, but see Crossfit NBS coach Angie Foree with hers all the time and had to stop and consider it as a contender in the ruck pack gang. Climbing packs are extremely sturdy, as they are intended to be very secure while climbing all over rocks. They are a bit longer, which increases stability in most people and can pack quite literally everything you would need for a couple days of vigorous hiking and camping.
How do I put this thing on?
The first step would be to make sure you are packing your ruck appropriately. I tend to use the bottom of the ruck for items that I don’t need until the end of the day/at all OR flat items that can accommodate even allocation of weight on top of it. Towards the center of your pack, you will tightly put together things that need a little space. Get comfortable with the approximate weight of things that you are bringing along and play a little tetris. In a perfect world, you can evenly distribute weight and bulk in the middle of your pack. Lastly, to avoid having to dump out and rearrange your pack, leave small emergency or common items in side zippers or on the very top of the ruck sack.
Now positioning: this can be tricky. too high and your center of gravity shifts up and you run the risk of toppling over with any downhill momentum. Too low and you end up inhibiting proper hip mechanics for walking. Ideally, you want the waist belt secured tightly around the top of the hip bone. Once you have found the right position for your hip belt, you can then adjust the shoulder straps and tighten them down. You do not want to bind up the shoulder girdle so much that it creates an awkward tension relationship with the waist belt, but you also don’t want the straps falling off your shoulders either. Look for a happy medium there. After you have figured out the shoulder straps, lock in your waist belt and chest strap.
Next Month, we will discuss how to move with a ruck.
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How Did This Happen
Since the introduction, we have had plenty of examples of ways to ruin a gym. Let me remind you that these scenarios listed are things we would kind of like to NOT see when coming into the gym, just to be clear. We are going take a look at equipment that has been broken or ruined due to misuse, I will attempt to paint a picture on how I think the incident ended up happening.
Broken, Snapped and Torn
Bands get ran through like water here at NBS, every day we find them either lying on the floor, ripped, or shredded. Now in all fairness the new style that came out we have had the past year was not as durable as the originals, however, the originals have been ordered again and should do a little better of a job holding up against abuse.
1- Leaving bands on machines while still under tension.
We have a lot of ways to set up bands on machines to aid in strength. Just as weight is difficult to put away so are bands once they are already set up. Last week I came in and saw brand new red bands doubled up and left on the Hack Squat machine, this is a great way to make them loose their elastic quality.
2- Dropping bars with safety rails up
Although the safety rails are in place this does not mean bail and let the bar fall from it’s highest point and crash into the rails. Since the gym has been opened we are now up to 2 bars that have been bent, now normally this is something you would think is normal in a gym, let me inform you it is not for this equipment. These Texas bars are rated to hold 1200 lbs without breaking!!!!! There is one person that comes to train at this gym that can stress a bar that much and he has never broken one. We have had a Texas bar bent by way of sumo pulls in the power rack and we can only assume someone was trying to look cool and just dropped his “heavy weight” after each set enough times to make a bar bend.
Just recently we found out football bar bent, dead center in the middle of the bar, this almost seems like it was calculated and the only assumption we could make was someone was doing overhead press or pin presses and was letting the bar fall to the rails with a lot of weight on it several times.
3- Leave Texas Bars outside
Yes, that is correct, perfect storage for metal is exposing them to the elements. This method of storage allows them to get coated with rust and protects the inner part of the metal, it also feels really good on the hands, smells good as well.
Every one of us at some point in time has walked into their work place and just looked and said, “what in the actual F***?”. Whether it be in your current job, or past job, some job you have been in this has happened. Some of the scenarios you literally have to think about all day until you come up with your own conclusion of how and why it happened. Here at the gym, we see whacky stuff every morning coming into the gym, sometimes even when we are not paying attention while in the gym, turn around and just stare in awe of what currently is in the process of happening or the left overs of what happened. This mini series will entail 3 examples per blog of stuff that has accumulated over the weeks so we all can share in the laughs
We were recently nominated for Memphis Best Health Club by the Commercial Appeal and we ended up making it into the top 3 nominees which got us the invitation to The Memphis Most Banquet last Wednesday night. It was a honor to be a part of the event and to know that we were able to make it into the top 3 best facilities in Memphis. Unfortunately we didn’t win the category which was between YMCA, ATC, and NBS (guess the key is to using your initials in your name). Even though we didn’t win, what I thought was really cool is this:
ATC has 14 locations in the mid-south area with several thousand members per location.
YMCA has 12 locations in the mid-south and an even higher number of members per location than ATC.
NBS has one location with only about 450 clients.
That is a statement to all of the NBS Fitness family who believed in this facility enough to take their time to vote us into the top 3 best facilities in the city. It was a bit of a David versus Goliath competition and while we might not have won this round, we at least rattled their cages. Till next year…
This book was recommended to me months ago. It sat on my reading cue for quite a bit, until a long flight without wifi gave me nothing but time to dive right in. As I have touched on before, I typically have a rotation in subject matter when it comes to books that I read: business development, skill development, fiction, and personal development. This book by Mark Manson was a pretty perfect book for me, as I tend to give waaaaaaay too many fucks about things, which bogs me down from allocating my time and energy in productive places. For further proof, you can just ask David. He’ll tell ya.
Determined to not let this year be another overly emotional shit storm, I cracked into this book and also popped open a note book to jot down things that resonated with me. Several college ruled sheets of paper later, I present a few of my favorites.
- If you give a fuck about everything, you can’t really give a fuck about anything. This book isn’t really about not caring about anything. It’s about caring immensely about the right things and NOT AT ALL about the rest. See, try as I might, my emotional bandwidth is most definitely finite. There have been many nights that I have crashed on the couch as soon as I got home because I was carrying demons that didn’t belong to me. While sometimes you can get away with this, this is extremely detrimental when you come across the need for the emotional energy, but have spent it on problems that you can really fix. I have a widowed mother, two sisters with growing children, a career that’s really taking off, a relationship that has been nothing but positive. I have a staff of GOOD people that I can help usher into a productive, happy life. I have some of the most genuinely caring friends. I have a massive dog with anxiety that needs cuddles. All of those people + Kilo deserve emotional energy in the very rare occurrence that they need an ear or some help in their life struggles. However, its easy to get sucked into the peripheral problems of people outside that list that aren’t really ever going to resolve, but diversify. By choosing to detach from those situations and energy drains, you are electing to reserve the best you have to offer for those you CHOOSE to hold closely. “If you find yourself consistently giving too many fucks about trivial shit that bothers you — your ex-girlfriend’s new Facebook picture, how quickly the batteries die in the TV remote, missing out on yet another 2-for-1 sale on hand sanitizer — chances are you don’t have much going on in your life to give a legitimate fuck about. And that’s your real problem. Not the hand sanitizer.”–Mark Manson
- You cannot hide from adversity: this was a good take away. The most fair thing in this life is that we are all treated unfairly. There is not a person I know that hasn’t gotten the shit end of the stick at one point or another. Unfortunately, a trap many people fall into (myself included) is to focus on how unfair life is. This negates the ability to saddle up and fix what you can control in the situation. If you get laid off, you might sit and sulk about how unfair that is. OR you can spent that emotional energy finding a more secure job. The beauty of option two is that you might very well find stability AND you release yourself from feeling like a victim. The reality is, sometimes you will face pain and adversity. You will have your heartbroken and you will be disappointed. Often, you wont *deserve* it, per se. BUT you can always overcome it.
- Feeling pain isn’t the worst thing in the world: have you ever watched teenagers suffer their first break up? Often, they have no idea that the hurt that they feel in their chest is temporary, and that with time it will go away. Its only with experience that you know that the human condition can be painful, and that is just the risk of doing business with other humans. However, what I think is interesting to watch is the desperate flee from pain: rebounding relationships, extreme distractions, lobbying insults, and generally being a shitty person helps take the sting off of pain. I’ve done it, you’ve done it, and everyone I know has done it. At the end of the day, you have done very little to make peace with the situation. Instead of focusing on fleeing from the pain, focus on something bigger than that: self improvement and the honest assessment you just got by way of a heartache. “And in a strange way, this is liberating. We no longer need to give a fuck about everything. Life is just what it is. We accept it, warts and all. Life fucking goes on. We now reserve our ever-dwindling fucks only for the most truly fuckworthy parts of our lives: our families, our best friends, our golf swing. And to our astonishment, this is enough. This simplification actually makes us really fucking happy.”–MM
- Perspective is a motherfucker: If you gain nothing else out of life, you gain perspective. I have been both unfortunate and fortunate to have experienced the highs of seeing new life in my family recently as well as the lows of a final breath. Both extremes exist on the opposite end of the spectrum but lend to the understanding that these events happen while you are stumbling through this life, for better or for worse. How dumb I have felt realizing that I have been consumed with people and events who made almost no long term impact on my life, all the while missing out on celebrating the birth of nieces and nephews. All the while, missing valuable time with family that may not have much time left. If that doesn’t shake the fucks out of you, nothing will.
- “And then you die..”: We all tend to look at our existence as ending once we die. In a lot of ways, that is true. However, to quote Banksy, “you die twice. One time when you stop breathing and a second time, a bit later on, when somebody says your name for the last time.” This is pretty deep. The reality is that the things you choose to give time and attention to is a reflection on your values and what you think was important during your time on this earth. If you are fortunate to have friends and family outlive you, the legacy you leave behind is etched by your efforts. The things you found worthy of your “fucks” will be topic of memories each time your existence is brought up. The beauty is that if you start now, you can author this. With a bit of restraint, you too can stop improper allocation of fucks,
What is failure?
Failure is inevitable. Failure is life. Show me someone who doesn’t have a bag full of failures that they can pull from and I will show you someone who hasn’t done anything worth a damn. Failure is an opportunity to learn from your mistakes, to do it better the next time. Failing is vital to winning. And that is the distinction between failing and losing. Losing is a finished state, there is no coming back from it. If you fail to convert on third down in a football game, you can learn and adjust to increase your chances of success the next time you need to convert on third down. But if you lose, the game is over.
Everyone Has What it Takes, Some People Just Don’t Use It
My time in the fitness world has allowed me to experience a lot of failure, a large amount my own, some from clients, the rest from people I know. And while failure is an opportunity to learn, for some, they let it become an opportunity to lose, or worse…quit. I don’t know what causes this mentality. Is it biological, something that is inherent in a person’s DNA, something they have no control over? Is it environmental, where during their development they were rewarded for quitting instead of trying again, harder? I’m not sure what the answer is. However, I do know two things for a fact:
- Everyone has the physical ability to push harder
- A small minority have the mental ability to push harder
This is true up and down the spectrum of intensity. I recently interviewed a SEAL buddy of mine named JP Dinnell on my podcast (The Iron and Lead Podcast) and he said that despite the military’s best efforts to better prepare candidates for BUD/S training the only way to get more SEALs is to take more candidates. You can’t improve the drop out rate, some people are going to quit and some people aren’t. Period. On the other end of the spectrum, a minority of people are going to be able to succeed when they begin a new exercise regimen, try a new diet, or start a new years resolution and the large majority will not. Love it. Hate it. It is what it is.
Define Your Own Success
What you consider failure, what you consider winning or losing is up to you. For some, winning is giving up regular soda in place of diet soda, for others winning is hitting a new PR in the gym or on the road, and for others winning is completing an IronMan Triathlon or being in the record books. But like I stated above, regardless of what your goals, somewhere along the way you’re going to fail. And how you respond to that failure will ultimately determine whether or not you find your eventual success or throw in the towel. Understanding why you failed is the first step in learning from that failure and ensuring it won’t happen again. Here are the 4 reasons you will fail:
You Won’t Accept Self Responsibility
Truthfully, this is the foundation for pretty much this entire article. Every other reason points back to this simple statement: take responsibility for everything. If you haven’t read the book Extreme Ownership, you need to read it. The book is based around the principle of taking responsibility for every part of every situation. Missed a third attempt squat at a powerlifting meet because the judges were from another gym and they don’t like you? Wrong. You missed it because you didn’t squat it low enough to where they had no choice but to give you a white light. Didn’t get a promotion at your job because you don’t suck up to your boss? Wrong. You didn’t get the promotion because you failed to produce at a high enough level and develop quality work place relationships to a point in which there wasn’t any choice but to promote you. The biggest detriment to not taking responsibility is it leaves you with no course of action. How can you make any changes to ensure a more positive future outcome if none of the reasons for your current failure are your fault? You can’t. You just sit there and make indiscriminate passive aggressive Facebook posts and show the world how much of a loser you really are. It’s your fault, take responsibility and do something about it.
Look, you are special. You are special in the sense that your parents were able to procreate, that somehow that one sperm and that one egg happened to go through meiosis, that you somehow survived birth, happened to be born into a time period with things like computers and air conditioning, and happened to (for most of you anyway) be born in the United States where you have the freedom to listen to rock and roll and eat apple pie. In that sense you are special, but in the sense of exercise and fitness, you’re not. Sure some people are born with different abilities and natural gifts but really, very few people lose because of their genetics and no one quits because of them. The thing is, if you just read that and thought to yourself “But David, I am one of those people”, then that’s the problem. In pretty much every single situation, regardless of what you are having to face, someone has been in a way worse situation, toughed it out and made it through successfully. That being said, if you find yourself in a tough situation, and want to start telling people how you’re “grinding”, make sure you’re not in that situation because of your own dumb ass decisions. Either way, don’t tell people you’re grinding. Just shut up and do the work. And if you think I’m being a hater, understand that haters don’t exist. No one has “haters”. If you think you do, you’re probably just a shitty person and people don’t like you. Be a better person and you won’t have haters.
The easiest way to fail is to not give your all towards something. You don’t have to give 110%, you just need to give one hundred percent one hundred percent of the time. Sure, you still might not get the results you’re looking for but at least you know you didn’t leave any effort out on the table. One way I implement this is during my runs I always run out half the distance so no matter what I have to run back the other half. For you it may be cleansing your entire kitchen of crappy food or it may be putting all your toiletries at the gym so in order to brush your teeth and put on deodorant in the morning you have to go to the gym. Maybe that’s an extreme example but for a lot of people, they will take any easy out they can get. If there’s a chance to quit, they will. Don’t give yourself a chance. Get in the corner, take the punches, and fight your way out.
This is a combination of not taking responsibility and thinking you’re special. Ego gets in the way of many great dreams. If the Titanic, the Hindenburg, or Blockbuster can teach us anything, it’s that thinking you are too big to fail is almost always going to guarantee failure. Be humble, ask for help, be open to new ideas and suggestions and don’t be married to your ways. Not only does this help you be more agile and able to react quickly but it helps you win over much needed teammates. Egos get bruised easily in the fitness industry where everyone’s self worth is wrapped up in how many followers and likes they get on the IG. Don’t let your pride be your blind spot.
This article was meant to be a little harsh and straight to the point. Hopefully it struck a few nerves in you, it definitely struck some within myself writing it. That’s a good thing. That means you have a chance to do something about. Be the small minority.
At first I wasn’t sure if I should post about this but I figured people would find it informative and possibly a bit entertaining (I thought it was hilarious when I first found out). The funny thing about the fitness industry is that it really is the only health related field that is completely unregulated. What this means is that anyone can legally charge somebody for health, fitness, and nutritional guidance. There are no requirements by law that you must have any type of education, certification, or pass any type of board or state licensing exam. Contrast this to every other health related field like physical therapy, occupational therapy, and dental hygiene where you are required to go to post graduate school, pass a board, get a state license, and maintain your continuing education. Even cosmetologists are required to go to school and pass a state exam. So to summarize:
- Cutting someone’s hair without a license: ILLEGAL
- Giving a pedicure without a license: ILLEGAL
- Cleaning someone’s teeth without a license: ILLEGAL
- Telling someone to do 3 sets of 10 of squats as part of their occupational therapy without a license: ILLEGAL
- Telling someone to do 3 sets of 10 of squats on a bosu ball because it “activates their core” while selling them raspberry ketones through your MLM: TOTALLY LEGAL!!!!
I hope that sounds as ridiculous to you as it does to me. The problem with this lack of a filter to actually become a personal trainer is that a ton of people who are not in any way shape or form qualified to personal train people or give them nutritional advice actually put themselves in a position to make a living doing just that. Most of the time, they’re not ill intentioned, they just don’t know the proper pathways to becoming a qualified trainer. Unlike becoming a doctor, where everyone knows you can’t just say you’re a doctor and instead you actually have to go to school for it, people tend to just wake up one morning and say “Hey, I’m a personal trainer, pay me.” This is why NBS makes all of our trainers get a top level certification, why we make them all go through our trainer development program, why they all participate in monthly continuing ed and are given a continuing education allowance, and why we have five exercise science degrees on staff. We don’t want to be like every other gym, we want our facility and our trainers to stand way out from the rest of the industry.
So without further insight into the personal training industry, as a gym owner I get to experience all kinds of pains in my butt of which some still make me chuckle. This is one of those. The gentleman in this photo (who’s identity has been hidden) has decided that he will now become a personal trainer and what better way to advertise yourself as a personal trainer than taking a picture at Memphis’ Best Gym where the best trainers in Memphis are. And at the insanely low and outside of industry norms price of $15 a session, what a deal he is giving us! Now, I don’t mean this to be a personal attack on this man who used to be a member at our facility but the fact remains that an industry in which anybody can present themselves as an expert is going to struggle with quality control. The best thing you can do is educate yourself so that you don’t waste your money, time, and health taking direction from the wrong person.
YOUR POSITIONING SUCKS
My poverty bench is so comical it could have its own stand up show and make a killing. Seriously, it would sell out the FedEx Forum. My current goal is to hit a (measly) 400lbs bench on the platform.
Over a year ago I completely changed my bench setup and stance, which got me to a 400lbs bench press in training but never on the platform. I have been chasing this goal for 2 years now and I have decided to completely change it up AGAIN in hopes of reaching my goal. After making minimal to negative progress 3 meets in a row (over a year time frame), I decided it was time for a change. It is too soon to tell if the new approach is working.
Some bench sessions feel good, others feel terrible. Consistently inconsistent. But I am sticking with it through the next competition. You have to know when the time is appropriate to make a change.
Think of it like a science experiment. You need to complete the whole thing to see the result. If you stop and change things mid-way, you can never be certain about the results you get. Say you finish Week 4 of an 8-Week program and decide it’s not working, so you do your own thing the last 4 weeks. What if you hit a PR at your meet? Which 4 weeks of training was effective, the first 4 weeks or the last 4 weeks?
It’s important to remember that the process that allows you to reach one goal will not be the same process required to get to the next goal. In other words, what gets me to a 400lbs bench press will NOT be the same strategy I need to get a 405 or 410 bench press. I find great humor in social media posts where someone hits a new PR and announce the next meet they will hit a 20-50lbs heavier PR after their next training cycle. It is neither logical nor reasonable to request that of your body. You can’t count your chickens before they hatch, and the top lifters in this sport realize that it may take YEARS of hard work to get that next 5-10lbs PR.
FIX YOUR HEAD
A lot of great things happen in powerlifting, but so do bad things. The long-lasting phrase, “it’s not IF you get hurt but WHEN” is a very real thing in competitive sports. When an injury arises, you have to be willing to change your game plan and change your mindset. I had a defeated mindset all of 2016 in powerlifting and that lead to some struggles on the platform. Frankly, they are not all fixed and it will be a long time until they are. Doing the same things over and over won’t get me there.
My mental focus on meet day is something that is lacking. I allow that negative voice in my head to get louder as my attempts come near. After talking to a few great lifters, this is normal. Great lifters, however, are able to quiet that voice and not acknowledge it. Personally, I tend to let it take the microphone and start singing. I attempted to add meditation to my game plan. Unfortunately, I was trying the wrong kind of meditation and it just made me tired the rest of the day. I found there were different forms of meditation that could be done prior to a stressful activity that I should have been doing.
CHANGE needed to be made after realizing my mental state was off and this was one of the several things implemented to initiate that change. All in all, change is not bad, it is actually necessary to grow and increase your potential in just about any area you can think of. Nothing stays the same forever. Everything adapts. Everything changes.